We celebrate our birthdays, festivals like diwali,holi and many more every year without failing.. So, if a day comes once in 4 year.. shouldn't we celebrate it??
I strongly feel we should.. and why not? It gives us one extra day to live, to enjoy, to cherish our dreams, to love and what not..
Lets celebrate it to keep it in our memory till it come again after 4 LONG years.
and yes a "Very Very Happy Birthday" to guys who are fortunate enough to born this day (fortunate bcos they can easily escape from giving birthday treats yaar)
Friday, February 29, 2008
Everyone Deserves To Be Loved
One of my realtives were childless even after several year of thier marraige and after consulting several doctors they had to accept the harsh truth that they can never ever have thier own child... so,they decided to adopt one.. I was really really happy to hear about this.. Finally they will have the fortune of having someone in thier life whom they can love selflessly.. With whom they can live thier childhood all over again..When I met the lady I was very excited and I asked which orphanage are they going to visit... She replied angrily.. are you out of your mind.. I was still trying to understand what was wrong in what I askedShe continued without even looking at me.. she said how can we adobt someone whose religion is unknown..how can we adopt someone whose parents are unknown.. who is not our family's bloodI was stunned... which century are you talking about and why u need to adobt a kid if he has his parents with him??Religion, blood ,family.. a child knows no boundry.. He is as pure as your morning prayers...Every single child deserves his share of Love and Effection and what can be better then giving it to someone who really needs them.
She seemed to be least intrested in what I was saying and said.. my sister is expecting.. she is already having a daughter and if this time also she gets a girl child we will adopt her.. but if its a baby boy then we have to wait again to get a child..
I was looking at her in disbelief.. how can a female be ready to give her own child to someone else just because she is a girl child.. and how will the girl feel when she is grown up and she comes to know about the truth ..will she ever be able to accept her new parents with her own parents in front of her? Will she ever be able to forgive her own parents for not being with her?
Well it has been a long time since then... her sister got a baby girl and my relatives adopted her and they are leading a normal life but I still question myself --Why to deprive a parent from thier child and a child of his parents when you can be parent to someone who is deprived of them .. afterall EVERYONE DESERVES TO BE LOVED !!!!
She seemed to be least intrested in what I was saying and said.. my sister is expecting.. she is already having a daughter and if this time also she gets a girl child we will adopt her.. but if its a baby boy then we have to wait again to get a child..
I was looking at her in disbelief.. how can a female be ready to give her own child to someone else just because she is a girl child.. and how will the girl feel when she is grown up and she comes to know about the truth ..will she ever be able to accept her new parents with her own parents in front of her? Will she ever be able to forgive her own parents for not being with her?
Well it has been a long time since then... her sister got a baby girl and my relatives adopted her and they are leading a normal life but I still question myself --Why to deprive a parent from thier child and a child of his parents when you can be parent to someone who is deprived of them .. afterall EVERYONE DESERVES TO BE LOVED !!!!
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